A grieving process is perfectly natural, and everyone has their own way of getting over a broken heart. We become humbled and that is not always a bad thing. Remember, you are never broken, just a little bent.
At first we realize that things have been a bit rocky between you and an partner, or even tumultuous. Or sometimes there is indifference, and deep in your heart you hear a little voice telling you something is not right. You come to realize things are not going to work out unless you enjoy getting the silent treatment. Ultimately, you find yourself facing the reality that things are not clicking between you.
It is important to understand that counterproductive actions of body, speech and mind do not arise of their own accord, but spring up in dependence on our motivation. Faulty states of mind give rise to faulty actions. To control negative physical and verbal actions, we need to tame our mind. Dalai Lama
All that has ever happened, is happening now, and ever will happen, exists right now. The universe is just waiting to see which experience you choose this time. If you think you would like to experience a different reality, focus on that, and that is the outcome you can draw to you.
No one likes the stigma of divorce, broken or single. This is the crappy part when you realize your life will be different. You may listen to songs that remind you of them, cry into a pillow that still smells like them, agonize about what will happen next. Your life may seem over, but time heals all wounds and broken hearts mend over time. This is the worst stage, but it is crucial to endure it. Listen to those songs, cry a lot, curl up under the covers and brood a bit. Let yourself feel the grief, pain, emptiness and sorrow. Do not hold in your hurt, do not deny it. There is no time frame for this stage, but usually it takes me two whole days to get through it. Then on the third, something happens and I have an epiphany.
The most powerful way to provide for your future is to be happy and satisfied with where you are now.
Karma means that all actions have consequences.
Grace means that in a moment of atonement ~ taking responsibility, making amends, asking for forgiveness ~ all karma is burned.
Life is eternally functional, adaptable, and sustainable.
Change is an announcement of Life's intention to go on.
Change is the fundamental impulse of Life itself.
And as always...
In difficult moments seek God
In painful moments trust God
In every moment thank God
and keep the faith xo
my sincere thanks to Marianne Williamson and Neale Donald Walsch for your inspiration