Friday, December 24, 2010

christmas eve



The legend of Santa Claus can be traced back hundreds of years to a monk named St. Nicholas. It is believed that Nicholas was born sometime around 280 A.D. in Patara, near Myra in modern-day Turkey.  Much admired for his piety and kindness, St. Nicholas became the subject of many legends.  It is said that he gave away all of his inherited wealth and traveled the countryside helping the poor and sick.  One of the best known of the St. Nicholas stories is that he saved three poor sisters from being sold into slavery or prostitution by their father by providing them with a dowry so that they could be married.  Over the course of many years, Nicholas's popularity spread and he became known as the protector of children and sailors.  His feast day is celebrated on the anniversary of his death, December 6.  This was traditionally considered a lucky day to make large purchases or to get married.


Santa's reindeer are named Dasher ~ Dancer ~ Prancer ~ Vixen ~ Comet ~ Cupid ~ Donner (Donder) ~ Blitzen and of course the most famous reindeer of all ~ Rudolph.  Did you know that Blitz is German for lightening?  Donner is German for thunder, and Donder is Dutch for thunder.  A courser is a swift horse; a charger.


Clement Clarke Moore's famous poem, which he named "A Visit From St. Nicholas," was published for the first time on December 23, 1823 by a New York newspaper, the Sentinel.  Since then, the poem has been reprinted, translated into innumerable languages and circulated throughout the world.  Legend says he wrote "Twas the Night Before Christmas" on Christmas Eve in 1822 during a sleigh ride home from Greenwich Village after buying a turkey for his family.  Some say the inspiration for Moore's pot-bellied St. Nicholas was the chubby, bewhiskered Dutchman who drove Moore to Greenwich Village to buy his holiday turkey.  Moore read the poem to his wife and six children the night he wrote it, and supposedly thought no more about it.  A family friend heard about it and submitted the poem to the Sentinel.  Because of his "mere trifle" as he called it, 175 years ago Clement Clarke Moore almost single-handedly defined our now timeless image of Santa Claus.


'Twas the Night Before Christmas
(A Visit from St. Nicholas)
by Clement Clarke Moore

'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,
in hopes that St. Nicholas soon would be there.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
while visions of sugar plums danced in their heads.
And Mama in her 'kerchief, and I in my cap,
had just settled our brains for a long winter's nap.

When out on the roof there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from my bed to see what was the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash,
tore open the shutter, and threw up the sash.

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow
gave the lustre of midday to objects below,
when, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
but a miniature sleigh and eight tiny reindeer.

With a little old driver, so lively and quick,
I knew in a moment it must be St. Nick.
More rapid than eagles, his coursers they came,
and he whistled and shouted and called them by name:

"Now Dasher! Now Dancer!
Now, Prancer and Vixen!
On, Comet! On, Cupid!
On, Donner and Blitzen!
To the top of the porch!
To the top of the wall!
Now dash away! Dash away!
Dash away all!


As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,
when they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky
so up to the house-top the coursers they flew,
with the sleigh full of toys, and St. Nicholas, too.

An then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof
the prancing and pawing of each little hoof.
As I drew in my head and was turning around,
down the chimney St. Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,
and his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot.
A bundle of toys he had flung on his back,
and he looked like a peddler just opening his pack.

His eyes - how they twinkled! His dimples, how merry!
His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,
and the beard on his chin was as white as the snow.
The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth,
and the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath.
He had a broad face and a little round belly,
that shook when he laughed, like a bowl full of jelly.

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf,
and I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself.
A wink of his eye and a twist of his head
soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread.

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work,
and filled all the stockings, then turned with a jerk.
And laying his finger aside of his nose,
and giving a nod, up the chimney he rose.

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,
And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, 'ere he drove out of sight,
"Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good night!"



Embrace the magic of this day ~ may all your wishes be granted. xo

You better watch out, you better not cry,
 better not pout, I'm telling you why...

Santa Claus is coming to town.

He's making a list, checking it twice,
gonna find out who's naughty or nice

Santa Clause is coming to town.

He sees you when you're sleeping,
he knows when you're awake,
he knows if you've been bad or good,
so be good for goodness sake!

Oh! You better watch out, you better not cry,
better not pout, I'm telling you why...

Santa Claus is coming to town!









Thursday, December 23, 2010

keep the faith

lottery scratch off ticket

This has been a horrendous month for many people that I know and love.   Despite  being forewarned that Mercury being retrograde would bring its wrath, I am still having trouble grasping all the glitches taking place - from medical issues to natural disasters to appliances and cars breaking down to roofs leaking and mudslides and snowstorms paralyzing Europe and our beloved Chicago firefighters losing the battle.  Whoa.  One morning I brought Big Daddy to get all the results from his numerous tests and we arrived early, so he pulls out a scratch off ticket for the lottery and we alternated scratching the chance for a winner.  Lo and behold we were one number away from winning $15,000!  We needed 21 and got 20.  The moment we shared that morning is tucked away in my heartfelt memory bank and I will cherish it forever.  We still have one more week to endure the universal tides, but we must keep the faith, for it will be over soon.  This tidal wave of bad news has caused many of us to find ways to cope.  Mine is to conquer my fear of baking, so I did. 
my candy cane cake

In early December I shared a recipe for this cake.  With all the intense pressure going on around me, I collected the ingredients and baking tools throughout the month, mentally preparing to challenge myself to create this dessert for our Christmas Eve celebration.  I already made tons of kolackies, kiss cookies and birthday cakes, but this was the masterpiece to conquer.  I set aside a quiet day when I knew I had no errands to run and began the task uninterrupted.  I listened to my new audiobible, Truth and Life - New Testament and got through three of the 18 cds which provided a comforting serenity while I went through the process.  Thanks, Slidog.  My fear of baking is conquered and the cake is complete.  Stevie put the final candy cane touches to seal the sweet delight. Dunkin' Donuts has a sale on their coffee - four bags for $20 so I added a little peppermint crushings to my morning coffee for an uplifting treat.  This is my testament that perseverence, confidence and encouragement from my cousin Deena and Aunts Diane and Aletha can make it happen.  Thanks y'all. :) 

Steve and his buddies

I am watching the rest of my family members scrambling to wrap and deliver their Christmas gifts.  Steve made his own cards, bought and wrapped his presents and delivered them in a cute Santa hat.  This warmed my heart.  Darcy wrapped her gifts so creatively and Dan woke me up at midnight to ask me to wrap his gift for Darcy.  I groggily looked at the package and determined it is a box of Fannie Mae candy in a plastic bag.  When I woke up I realized it is not and she will love it.  Good job, my son!
We are celebrating Christmas Eve at our home with Wayne's brother, cousin and his family.  Christmas Day we are invited to spend time with Margarita's family so I will make another cake for her birthday, deviating on the one I made yesterday.  We are due for some more treacherous weather so whatever you have to do, please take your time and be careful.  I notice people are cheerier wherever I go.  I look at them eye-to-eye and they all smile and we share happy tidings for the holiday.  Try it.  Enjoy the moments that take your breath away.  Be safe, have fun and be happy.  Christ, our Lord, will be here soon.  xo


Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.  She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus because he will save his people from their sins.  Matthew

Sunday, December 19, 2010

kiss cookies


peanut butter kiss cookies

Last weekend Steve and I went up to Delavan to spend the day with our friends, Janet and Sarah.  We decided to have a cookie share and bake our favorite recipes together and exchange.  I made my kolackys because they never fail to delight the palate and I have decades of practice so I knew they would turn out.  Janet made the PB cookie.  They are easy to prepare and I learned a few tips on baking that day.  Thanks, my friend.

For one batch, ingredients are:

1 1/2 cups sugar
2 cups peanut butter
2 eggs
1 bag hershey kisses

Blend sugar, eggs and peanut butter.  Scoop and roll little balls in a light dusting of sugar.  Place on baking tray leaving room to spread while baking.  Only bake one sheet at a time to avoid burning them.  We put two in the oven and they were burnt, but I took them home anyway and shared them with my brother Bo who likes burnt food, just as I do.  We're weird.  Anyway...Janet says you can put parchment paper on a baking pan to avoid burning anything; good to know.  Bake for 15 minutes at 350 degrees.  Remove from oven and tenderly place a hershey kiss in the middle.  If you use too much pressure the cookie will crack and fall apart.  Gentle is key; like a little smooch.  You can keep them on the counter but it takes over two hours to meld together; or do what Janet does, and place the tray of cookies in the freezer for 15 minutes.  When you remove them, they are finished and ready to be devoured. 

sweet sarah
          
I'm sharing a pic of Sarah - all growed up...She plans to pursue a career as a veterinarian.  Having cared for all sorts of animals her whole life, she'll do just fine.

christmas pickle
My Aunt Diane shared this on her blog so I was inspired to begin our own tradition for our family. Most places were sold out, but good old faithful Macy's (still Marshall Field's to us) had two left - one for each of our trees.  Perfect.
 In Old World Germany, the last decoration placed on the Christmas tree was always a pickle...carefully hidden deep in the boughs.  Legend has it that the observant child who found it on Christmas Day was blessed with a year of good fortune...and a special gift.  Now we will begin the fun of this tradition and practice for our future wee one.

Please continue to pray for many of our friends and family undergoing medical issues this month.  The power of prayer is miraculous.  Perhaps our pickles will bring good tidings to them. 

now I have a taste for pickles xo


Saturday, December 18, 2010

happy birthday darcy


Today we celebrate your 23rd birthday!  I vividly remember when we first met while Dan was in the hospital years ago and I fell in love with your vibrant energy.  A few years later, I did exactly what my mom did to me, and nudged Dan to consider you as a mate.  Time passed and your paths connected once again on St. Patrick's day, and the rest is history in the making.


Your effervesence for life is contagious.  Now that we share an abode, our family has deeply bonded with you.  Do you realize how wonderful it is for me to have another female to giggle with and share girlie talk? (code for gossip)  Steve adores you and shares things that I am sure I'll never know about.  Wayne gets a kick out of your little grunts and while we never eavesdrop, occasionally we hear you and Dan chatting and laughing in your love nest.  Everytime Wayne goes downstairs he remarks how nice it is kept (he never said that when Dan was there alone!)


We are blessed to have you as part of our tribe and look forward to making many more memories with you and your family.  Both you and Dan are close to graduating college and will inevitably plan for your future together.  Just know we love having you in our lives and both of you are welcome to stay as long as you need.  Who else will eat my baking creations?  I'll make sure we have lots of hot chocolate and marshmallows this winter so you and Steve can bond while watching scary movies.  I'll burn our scented candles and find more books for us to read together.


As a mom, I cannot thank you enough for bringing out the best in my son.  He communicates more with us, he beams with a big smile whenever you enter the room, he leaves his man cave to take you to dinner and visit the zoo.  I am grateful you connected and that he brought you into our lives.  My wish is for you to feel as much joy and happiness as we do because of your love.  You're an amazing woman, Darcy.  Have a beautiful birthday.  We love you.  xo






Wednesday, December 15, 2010

boy or girl?



In a matter of months, our family will celebrate the birth of a baby.   Mike and Margarita are due to bring joy to our world on or around June 30.  We knew about this happiness on November 10 when we all went to dinner and they gave us the moment that took our breath away, but waited until the coast was clear with doctors to share the good news.  I keep pinching myself to see if this blessing is really being bestowed upon us.   We continued to trust in the Lord and keep the faith that the universe always provides balance.  Our perseverence has paid off in ways I cannot even begin to put into words. 


My Dad has a mantra from Socrates: procreation is the secret to immortality.  He will be the Great Grandpa.  He has been singing "let the sun shine in" for quite sometime - perhaps the universe listened and is granting him the light he is seeking. The baby will know the honor of having Great - Great Aunts and Uncles as well.  I look forward to witnessing Mike as a father and Dan and Steve as uncles.  Look out world! This child symbolizes hope for new beginnings after so many endings and will be a true testament of God's love. We will experience a new life and the cycle will continue forward; each generation carries all the love (and genes) into the next. 


This is the season where children create magic with their unconditional wonder and awe.  Christmas is for kids and should be a time where we rekindle the child in each of us, no matter our age.  The season is very vibrant through the eyes of a child.  Recently we witnessed the cute moment in the classic Christmas movie It's a Wonderful Life, where Mary shares the news with George, and he says "Is it a boy or a girl?"  Her response "Yes!"   Even as we felt a suppression of the magic in recent years, with a newborn on the way, the dying embers will once again burst into flames of felicity.


I hoped one day to become a Grandma,  but now it seems surreal, and I can't believe we should be blessed so soon.  I'll take it as it comes and look forward to the delivery from the white stork, as Margarita puts it. My gratitude holds no bounds.  John Lennon was right on when he shared that life happens when you're making other plans.  The future seems so much brighter with the anticipation of a baby, but for today,  I share our joy with my wish that a flicker of hope will find its way into your heart as it has in ours.  xo

the love you take
is equal to
the love you make

the beatles

let the sunshine in...

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

stocking stuffer suggestions


We spend these next few days hustling and bustling trying to get things organized for the big day.  The holidays can be an extremely stressful time, but if we just take a moment to reflect on the true meaning of Christmas, we may find some time for peace and reflection.  Christ's birth is symbolic of new beginnings, or rebirths for many of us.  The Old Testament in the Bible is filled with stories about God prior to the birth of Christ, but the New Testament is just that - new.  God is forgiving in the New Testament and the messages are of hope and renewal.  If you are pondering the perfect present, I heartily suggest investing in this new Audio Bible entitled Truth and Life - The New Testament.  Numerous famous artists were involved providing their voices to the Scripture. The beauty of being able to listen to inspirational words of wisdom provides a means for us to comprehend the messages while driving, cooking, cleaning or just relaxing.  The audio bible can bring devotional practice to your life every day - anytime and anywhere.


For those who want a light-hearted adventure to escape to during the season, I strongly urge you to devour yourselves in this book through the words of the granddaughter of Santa.  It will bring laughter and tears and keeps the childlike spirit alive in each of us.  This is a must for all to read and pass along to those you love, for it refreshes the soul and rejuvenates the spirit.  Sometimes the holidays can trigger depression, but if we keep the faith and believe, we can overcome any obstacle this life presents to us.  The spirit of Santa is eternal.  Keep this as a momento of hope and love during the season. 


My sincere thanks to Donald J. Sliter and Donald C. Calarco for your strength and inspiration.  I am blessed to have known you and cherish our connection. xo





Sunday, December 12, 2010

ice list


In Case of Emergency

Today seems like a good day to update my ICE list.  As the planet Mercury continues its tirade of glitches in the universe, I find it helpful to have a little peace of mind knowing emergency contacts are in place.  I am no stranger to situations where someone needed to reach a repairman in a pinch, hence I placed a list in bold letters with names and phone numbers of heat/air conditioning, gas, electric and COMCAST.  chuckles.  Keep a note with the date you replaced the sump pump to know when you need to replace it - they usually last two or three years.  A battery backup is extremely helpful if you are prone to floods.  Keep a wetvac nearby. We have another list of the doctor and family members to contact immediately. Keep these two lists separate but near each other so as not to bombard too much information on one sheet.  The simpler, the better.   Many times these occurrences happen when I am in a panic and don't think too clearly.  Everyone in the house knows where to look for this list, as well as other items for the dreaded situations. 

Most of us carry a cell phone everywhere and it is useful to place a couple of numbers under an ICE contact so if anyone finds you, they can search your phone and proceed to assist you.  I hope this never occurs, but preparation is integral.  Just type a name and save it as ICE.  This is becoming  universal.  I let all those who live with us know that there is a signed check in a certain spot if they need immediate cash, say, if they have to bail me out of jail.   :{

 Certain supplies should be handy in the house or car but I find those who dwell here MUST BE AWARE of where they are located.  I try to keep a functional flashlight on every level so anyone can find it.  I'm still working on making sure they put it back when they use it, but I won't mention anyone's name, Wayne-O.  Bandaids, peroxide, antibiotic, vasoline and duct tape should always be at the ready - might as well throw in scotch and electric tape.  Everyone in the house should know how to turn off the water and gas.  Speaking of water, try to keep a case of bottled handy and keep it in a cool place.  We place it in the garage so all can see.  We used to keep the beer out there, but for some reason, it seemed to vanish too quickly.  Hmmm...

lifehammer
Dr. Oz had a show last year about an amazing little tool everyone should have in their cars.   It can cut through a stuck seat belt or break the glass so it shatters outside, not inside, and costs about $20.  We provide AAA cards to all our family members for roadside emergencies and they have helped us too many times to mention.  Keep the card with your insurance card so it is always easy to find.  Be aware the tollways provide free roadside assistance through IDOT so if you get a flat tire at 8:00 in the morning and are still wearing your pajamas, trust me, they will not judge.  Just pull over and sit and wait. 


We are getting pounded today by a winter snowstorm.  Even if you are lucky enough to have a snowblower, it is important to have a good shovel at the ready.  I still don't know how to work the mighty bull, therefore, I depend on a shovel.  We take our equipment to a reliable and reasonable place called ESA in Westmont to make sure they are in working condition before and after each season. Keep a bag of salt handy to prevent slips when ice covers the walkways. 
Preventive maintenance is the key to safety.  Try to stay indoors on days like today, but if you have to go out, at least you have peace of mind that you are prepared In Case of Emergency.  xo