Saturday, October 23, 2010

not a baker

lemon cheese pie

I was not blessed with the baking gene.  I continue to dabble in new sweet endeavors but at first do not succeed, so I try again.  I made lime squares that turned out just right, but the lemon squares ended up as lemon mush, so I put my creative cap on and enhanced a new dish using pie shells and adding a cream cheese enhancement and made a pie.  Now it is edible.  I am not kidding.  Who else do you know that makes oatmeal raisin cookies and forgets the oats?  Yep.  That would be me.  Sigh. 

another pasta dish

I am good with the carb meals, probably because I like them so much.  Today I tossed together a spinach, red pepper, parmesan pasta dish with spicy cashews.  Steve's friends and Darcy are vegetarians so I dabble in meatless meals to provide something for everyone.  I played all my new tunes by Kings of Leon and Bryan Ferry while cooking today.  Music inspires me. Wayne and Dan are raving about my mush mosh soup as I write this.  I just put together beef broth, red pepper, onion, broccoli and cheese tortellini.  Nothing to it.
My Boo had to pose by our gorgeous burning bush.  It started out with five bushes 25 years ago and only one is left, but that's all we need.  I love this look on him - he wears it well.
Danny took the pups for a walk in the field.  I love when he does this, for they are free to roam in the vast open space without their leashes, as dogs should be able to do.  Mama Thumper always finds something to roll in; this time it was ca ca and she smelled awful afterwards.  Dan found this so hard to understand why she does this, but I explained most dogs, especially hounds, like to smell like sh**, and they do not like baths at all.  Go figure.
I must share some of the classics from the Sawyer home.  Today I clicked a pic of the old sewing machine.  It makes me want to relearn how to sew just to use this fine item.  Again, I did not inherit the sewing gene.  The last time I attempted to make something, I did it for Girl Scouts to obtain a badge.  I made this cute yellow dress with daisies all down the front.  I wore it to school for show and tell and lo and behold the zipper broke.  Yep, that's me. 
Inside is the sewing machine.
This is another classic piece that Wayne's dad, George, aka Bombhead, played all the time.  We still have the old albums he loved to listen to all the time; Inglebert Humperdink and Bing Crosby, over and over, every weekend.  This is one of the best memories I have of him.  Cherishable.
Everything still works.
Last but not least, I found this old fashioned shoe shining kit.  It tickles my fancy everytime I see it.  The attic and basement are filled with treasures of days gone by and I cherish the memories attached to them.  I have an old fashioned washboard and mop roller bucket that I'll click next time.  Wait until you see the original man cave.  Some things we will sell and some we will pass onto our kids to keep the spirit alive as long as possible.  That's what life is all about. 
Enjoy the last days of October.  The full moon offers us the opportunity to affirm goodness in our lives.  Breathe in and exhale all the negativity you want released from your life.  The universe will take care of it.  Bless all to their higher good.  The love you take is equal to the love you make.  Thank God for this lovely season and lovingly put away the summer items and the memories attached to them, knowing they will return to offer us more joy.  Now we must get ready to nest and rest for awhile.  God gave us colder days and nights so we have an excuse to snuggle with the ones we love (and enjoy our fireplaces.)  Now we have time to rest from all the labors of gardening, but know in our hearts the seasons change, and once again we will embrace the warm weather. 
Boo's bonfire last night

Autumn

Autumn, the wind blows colder than summer
Autumn, my love's gone with another
I can't demand anything of myself now
I'll stay here in New England
For autumn

Buldings look tall and gray
Birds flying, haven't much to say
They all know that it's coming again
So I guess they'll stay here in New England
For autumn, autumn

Did you ever lose something
That you thought you knew?
Did you ever lose someone
That was close to you?
Well I lost my lover
And my summer, too

To autumn, the wind blows
Colder than summer
Autumn, my love's gone with another
I can't demand anything of myself now
So I guess I'll stay here in New England
For autumn, autumn, autumn

Edgar Winter


ps - isn't the word autumn weird?  keep typing it and you shall see xo





Wednesday, October 20, 2010

RIP Tasha



We are rapidly approaching November and the sun is still shining brightly and our temperature hovers 70 degrees.  My garden still graces us with her beauty and I had to share these three little blooms that are growing in the ground.  I have three tomato plants growing from fallen seeds as well.  Simply delightful.
Margarita ~ Kristina ~ Melanie

I had a glorious weekend with my future daughter, Margarita, and her family.  Friday I indulged in a long overdue massage and facial after completing our project in the city. Yahoo! Saturday we spent the day at Priscilla of Boston, where she found her wedding gown, then we had lunch at the Norstrom Cafe and browsed through Oakbrook Mall.  It was fun spending time with so much female energy; thanks Anna, Kristina and Melanie. Afterwards Margarita and Mike spent the evening with us -  each browsing through websites on two computers - one viewing guitars; the other wedding gowns.  It was so cute.  Sunday we continued our shopping tour at House of Brides and David's, just to make certain she made the perfect choice.  We all knew once she tried on the one.  I enjoyed a delicious Lithuanian dish at their home in Naperville and browsed through old photographs of their country and Margarita's childhood. 

My mom and dad's dog, Tasha, passed away this week.  She was such a cute Australian shepherd, all black with tiny white markings, but very neurotic.  She disliked the kitchen floor and had to have throw rugs all over.  Tasha enjoyed being in the backyard and a few weeks ago I got a kick out of watching her roll around in the grass as I planted mums.  I wish I knew that was to be one of the last times I would see her.  My Dad and Bo are really missing her and the house is so quiet without her.  Mom let them have her for three years; now they are reunited.  Rest in peace, Tashie.  I will miss petting your head - I know you really liked that. xo

Saturday, October 16, 2010

more feng shui L - Z


Library of Congress

Library - Use closed bookcases to keep the negative energy caused by the edges of the shelves from being directed at anyone in the room.  Don't use glass shelves in the North area.  Don't place wooden shelves in SW and NE areas, or in the center of a room.  Place inspirational literature, biographies about successful people, and personal growth and self-help books in the North area of a room or your home, which represents business and career success.  Put reference and motivational books, cards and posters in the NE area, which represents wisdom.  Put college handbooks from a school of choice in the NE area to ensure academic success.  Keep literature about starting or developing new ventures, businesses or beginnings in the East, which represents spring and new growth.  Put books about building wealth, making investments and increasing your assets in the SE, which represents wealth, material growth and fortune.  Store gifts, books, pictures and other items about and from celebrities in the South, which represents fame and fortune.  Keep literature about international relations, trade, travel, leadership, organization and planning in the NW. 

Place your library or study in the NE of your home, the area that governs knowledge, wisdom, self-improvement and enlightenment.  If you are fortunate enough to have walls with shelves, arrange your books according to the subject.  Encourage your children to study in the library.  Put an aquarium or fish tank in your library. Use your library for enriching, cultural activities such as listening to music, meditation, reading or practicing an instrument.  Store your books with their spines flush with the edges of the bookshelf in order to eliminate sha energy. A better solution is to use cabinets that have doors on them.  Display fresh or silk peonies in your library, but not elsewhere in the house if you are a married couple. 
Lions - Position Chinese lions correctly.  The male with the ball under his paw should be on the left side as you face out of the building.  The female with her lion cub under her paw should be on the right. The male lion represents the domain of the world at large; the female lion represents offspring and home.  Place lions in pairs outside your home for protection.  They should flank the door and face away from the building. Choose pairs that are in proportion to the size of the building they grace.  Use lions with great caution, as they will cause harm to the persons or businesses that they face. Safer substitutes include a pair of unicorns, elephants, horses or fu dogs, which resemble the Pekinese dogs favored by emporers and represent good fortune.  Use doorknockers with lion heads if the lion is part of your family's seal or coat of arms.  These offer protection to your household.  Don't place lions anywhere but on the ground.  They are animals of the earth and are not meant to be on roofs, gateposts or pedestals.  A good rule is to never place a lion's image higher than a lion would naturally climb.
Love - Place hearts in the SW to enhance love, romance and relationships.  Add a gold, red or pink crystal heart to your romance corner.  Place heart-shaped candles and accessories crafted in earth materials, such as stone, tile, terra cotta and clay in the SW to activate love, romance, relationships and marriage.  Use yellow, pink, red and white objects.  Hang a crystal chandelier in the SW area of your home, especially if this area contains your living room, to attract love.  Create a romance corner in the SW area of your bedroom.  Include pictures or figures of happy couples and surround them with hearts, flowers, doves and lovebirds.  Collect heart-shaped containers made of terra cotta, china and porcelain, or take stones from the beach that are shaped like hearts.  Place them in groups of two in your romance corner.  Keep a representation of a bat in a SW area to encourage marital contentment.  In China, bats symbolize happiness, good fortune, long life and protection.
Pets - Keep a bird or fish as a pet;   both represent wealth.   Don't keep the ashes of a pet (or a person) inside your home or on your property.  This represents death.  Match the color of your pet to the color of the season you were born. Keep a red bird or fish if you were born in the summer.   Select a green one if you were born in spring.  White pets are for those born in the autumn and black for winter. Keep your pets in the rear of the house. Reserve the front for visitors and positive chi to enter your home.

Plants - Use a jade plant in the wood areas of East and South. It makes a welcome addition to the interior or exterior of a home or business, as jade symbolizes wealth and good fortune.  Don't keep plants in your home that have sharp, spikey leaves, thorns, barbs or needles such as cacti.  All of those are a source of tiny "poison" arrows directed at the occupants of a room. Don't place spikey or thorny plants close to your front entrance or flanking the path leading up to your house.  Put these "hostile" plants on the perimeter of your property, some distance away from your house, to create a natural deterrent from intruders.  Do plant roses.  Although they have thorns, they also have a pleasant scent that neutralizes the sha energy.

Snakes - Don't keep a snake as a pet or bring an image of a snake into your home.  In feng shui, the snake is considered a noxious, treacherous and wicked creature. Don't injure, harm or kill a snake that takes up residence in or around your house or property.  Do keep a shed snakeskin.  This is believed to bring you riches.
                                            
Toads - Place a statue of a three-legged toad on the floor inside your house, facing into the room as if just entering. You can also put it in a cabinet, under chairs and furniture, or diagonally across from your front entrance.  This toad symbolizes that money is on its way to you and is considered lucky.  Don't put a toad statue directly facing your front door or on an altar; this means that your money is on its way out your door. Keep a coin in the mouth of a toad statue. Don't place toad statues in a bedroom, bathroom or kitchen.  They are thought to bring bad luck and negative energy when located in those rooms.

Turtles - Keep a live turtle, especially if it is black, in North areas.  Turtles are symbols of longevity, good luck, strength, fortune and endurance. As one of the celestial animals, they are believed to possess great protective powers. Save a turtle by purchasing it from a market where it is being sold as food. This is especially of merit because the turtle is considered sacred in China. Place crystal turtles facing North.  Metal turtles should face West, wooden turtles should face East or SE. Turtles made of earth materials should face SW or NE. Use turtles, which represent long life, to rid your home of illness.

Wolves - Don't place a statue of a wolf inside your home.  The wolf symbolizes cruelty, greed, mistrust and fear.  Do place a statue of a wolf as a guardian outside your home, perhaps in the garage.

Zodiac - Use the animals of the Chinese zodiac as decoration in your home.



Someday, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tide and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love.  Then, for the second time in the history of the world, we will have discovered fire.  Pierre Teilhard de Chardin


My sincere gratitude to Angi Ma Wong for his enlightening feng shui. xo

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

more feng shui D - H


Deer - Display a figure of a deer in the proper direction.  Place it in W or NW areas if it is metal, in E or SE locations if it is carved from wood, and in the NE or SW if it is crafted from an earth material, such as clay, porcelain or terra cotta.  The deer represents long life, speed, prosperity, endurance and wealth.

Desks - Examine the view that you have while sitting at your desk.  You should not directly face a "killing" arrow, such as a head-on road, the curve of a highway, a lamppost, a fire hydrant, the space between two buildings, a steeple, a rooftop, a tree trunk, power lines and transformers, the edges of signs and billboards or the corner of a building.  Use a desk that has the dimensions of 35" xo 60" xo 33" (89 x 152 x 84 cm.)  Use a wooden or glass desk in the East and a metal or stone desk in the West.  Try to have more space in front of your desk than behind it.  You need the support of a wall behind you and space in front of you to allow good chi to beat a clear path to you and your business.  Don't position your desk directly in line with the door or under a beam.  If you do, you will be receiving negative sha energy or will be located under oppressive sha, which causes illness, accidents and misfortune.  Buy a new desk or use one whose previous owner prospered.  Don't put bizarre or strange objects on your desk, as these attract negative energy.  Place any of the following on your desk to attract good luck and prosperity: a wish-fulfilling cow, deer, dragon, tortoise, unicorn, money tree, prosperity plant, table-top fountain, crystal paperweight or candy jar.

Dogs - Put a figure of a dog in the direction that matches the element from which the figure is made.  Put a metal dog in a West or NW area, a wooden dog in the East or SE, and a dog made of an earth material in the NE or SW.  The dog symbolizes faithfulness and is valued as both a protector and a scavenger. Place statues of dogs at your door for protection and to guard your prosperity.  Do adopt a stray dog if one comes to your home.  A dog that comes on its own is a very lucky omen that sustenance, fortune or wealth will arrive on your doorstep.

Doors - Make sure you have a clear view from the front entrance of your home, in order to facilitate a clear view of the world.  Use a small round or octagonal mirror or a shiny, flat metal doorknocker to deflect "poison" arrows, such as tree trunks, lampposts, fire hydrants, corners of neighboring buildings, church steeples or other objects projecting sha energy toward your home or obstructing your view.  Don't use an all-glass front door; choose a solid door instead.  A small, beveled window on the door is acceptable.  Too much glass does not offer protection for the home and allows prosperity to leak out.

Dragons - Place a dragon in the East area of a living room, family room, library, office or study or on the East corner of a desk.  The dragon is the traditional Chinese symbol of growth, protection, vitality, spring, prosperity, health and new beginnings. Don't put a dragon, an animal with a lot of yang energy, in your bedroom, which should always be restful, peaceful and serene.  Don't face your dragon toward the North, as this is considered unlucky.  Do use dragons as decorations if you were born in the Year of the Dragon.  Choose dragons or pictures of dragons that resemble the qualities of water: slick, shiny, translucent and the color of the sea.  This is more helpful that a dragon made of wood, china or porcelain, though all materials are acceptable.  Have your dragon face a source of clean water, such as a lake, river, beach, ocean, waterfall or fountain.  Use arrangements of just one dragon which represents power, two dragons symbolizing unity, or a group of nine dragons promoting longevity.  Choose a turquoise dragon.  Red is the second best and gold is third.  Place your dragon at eyelevel so you can see it easily.  It will then provide you with strength and vitality.  Don't put your dragon in, facing, or near the bathroom or laundry room.  These rooms represent dirty water.  Combine your dragon with a phoenix.  This represents a happy, harmonious pairing of partners and is a popular traditional wedding symbol in China.  Don't buy or use a carpet that has dragon designs on it.  Dragons must be able to fly free and are unable to do so if they are being stepped on.

Family Room - Balance quiet activities, such as board games, card games, reading and puzzles, with active pursuits, including table tennis, television billiards and video games, in a family room.  Use muted but warm colors, such as yellow or green, the color of harmony, in a family room to foster creativity, teamwork and relationships.  Use round tables to represent family harmony and equality.
pearly gates

Gates - Use an iron gate with an open design in the South area to allow beneficial energy to move freely.  Triangles and pyramid designs are great, but do not select designs that have spikes or points at the top of the gate as they will create sha energy.  Use a gate in the SW only if it is about as high as your waist or chest.  Choose one with a design of squares to match the earth element.  Use full-height metal gates in the West to slow down and obstruct the extreme yang energy of the afternoon sun.  Use circular, semi-circular and arch designs in this direction. Use arches, semi-circles and circles in blue or black metal for your NW gate.  Use a square gate in the NE, since this shape represents the earth.  Take your inspiration from water and the sea as you select your North gate; one embellished with waves and curves is ideal.  Use rectangles, cylinders, columns and poles in the design of your gate in the East, where the element that reigns is wood.

Gifts -  Give a Chinese unicorn, or chi ling, as a present to bestow good wishes upon someon.  This unicorn, which bears almost no resemblance to its European counterpart, is the symbol of goodness, long life, peace, harmony, protection, many children and an unending family line.  Give bird feathers as a thoughtful gift to your family and friends, as they represent protection.  Give a lion as a gift for a new home to provide protection to the family.  Don't give a bell, a clock, or anything with a clock's face as a gift.  These are akin to gifts of scissors, knives or swords and symbolize the severing of a relationship or a life.  Do attach a penny to each blade if you give a gift of a pair of scissors or a set of knives or swords.  This neutralizes the severence effect.  The pennies must be returned to the giver.  Give a gift of a jade dove or pigeon, a symbol of long life, to bestow best wishes for health and longevity.  Give potted tangerine or orange plants laden with fruit to new business owners, or to friends and family during the Chinese New Year.  These gifts symbolize prosperity, wealth and abundance in the months to come.  Give lucky red money envelopes generously and freely as gifts; they are traditional and appropriate for happy events, including birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, housewarmings, engagements, graduations, new businesses, births and visiting family members after an absence.  It is customary to put paper currency or a check inside.  Make a homemade jade plant by threading and twisting gold wire into semiprecious stone leaves on an artificial, potted bonsai tree.  Give the plant as a gift to express wishes for prosperity and abundance.  Make a homemade money tree by hanging fan-folded, new currency with red thread on a silk tree.  Don't give a regular bonsai plant as a gift, since it symbolizes limited growth and is therefore unlucky.  Give a sack of rice as a housewarming gift to bestow blessings of abundance.  Rice represents survival, prosperity, sustenance and fertility. Donate books that you no longer use to schools, churches, hospitals, halfway homes, libraries, prisons or other institutions.
Horses - Use a group of eight horses, which represents the fabled eight horses that a Chinese emporer used to win a war.  Don't use groupings of five horses, as five is a very powerful yin number.  Do place your horse so that it faces South, the most yang direction.  Don't place a horse from a tomb in your home, especially in the wealth, health or marriage areas.  These are funeral pieces that connote death and are therefore considered unlucky.   Choose a stately horse that is standing or posing calmly with its head level or lifted.  Select a galloping horse that symbolizes vigor and strength.  Don't use a horse that is bucking or rearing up as if in fear, especially in your bedroom. 


Be open.  Don't close off the possibility of a new truth because you have been comfortable with an old one.  Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.  Donald Neale Walsch

still more to come xo


Monday, October 11, 2010

more feng shui A-C

Feng shui is such a fascinating subject and many have perused the blogs previously written with tips on how to enhance the energies in surroundings.  Simple improvements may require changes and placements of objects.  According to Angi Ma Wong, feng shui offers a return to a simpler, more intuitive, natural way of living that fulfills a deep need for many people.  It must be done in concert with your spiritual, emotional and physical health.  As you practice feng shui, be sure it is with a pure heart and in moderation.  Keep a journal of the feng shui changes you implement and what happens after you do.  Be patient, as there is a reason and a season for everything in our lives.  Feng shui is as much about symbolism as it is about placement. 

thought you would get a chuckle

Antiques - Be mindful of the original purpose or use of an old or second-hand item.  Avoid masks of the dead that were used for burials or exorcisms, or statues that have come from tombs, caves, pyramids, cemeteries or temples.  Purify antiques with wind, water, fire, sound, salt or other techniques outside of your home before bringing them inside.  Refrain from bringing purchases from flea markets or tag sales into your home if the previous owners deceased, divorced or bankrupt; have been fired from jobs; or have experienced other misfortunes.
Aquarium - Place aquarium in North areas (associated with business success and career growth) or in East or Southeast areas for prosperity.  In every corner of the world, water - in the form of rivers, lakes and oceans - has brought trade, commerce and prosperity. Use a metal and glass (or acrylic) aquarium as metal creates water.  Don't put an aquarium in or facing a bathroom or a bedroom.  This is considered unlucky and can result in loss of fortune.  Don't keep an aquarium in your kitchen.  Since the kitchen is in the domain of fire and is nourished by wood, the element of water will destroy your prosperity. 

Do keep fish in multiples of nine, a symbol of long life, or in odd numbers.  Eight fish should be gold in color, since eight is the homonym for the Chinese verb "to prosper."  One fish should be black, a color that will provide protection and absorb negative energy.  Don't fret if any of your fish die, for it means tht the deceased animal has absorbed something negtive that would have happened to you.  Replace the fish as soon as you can to maintain your protection.  Do keep one arrowana, known as the "prosperity fish."  Arrowanas are beautiful silver, gold or black-tinged ribbonlife fish from Southeast Asia.  They are very auspicious, but they are tropical and need water heated to about 82 degrees in order to survive.  Do keep an odd number of fish; this represents yang energy.  Keep your aquarium at a level about waist-high. Keep your aquarium and its water clean and keep the pumps, filters and other equipment in good working order.  Don't hang pictures of family members, especially those who are deceased, on the wall above your aquarium.

Basement - Keep your basement free of clutter.  Don't locate a bedroom in the basement.  Finish basement rooms for occasional use only - as a family room, guest room or game room.

Bedroom - Create a safe haven for sleep, rest, intimacy and recharging your spirit and body.  Don't keep more than a few books in your bedroom; they are too stimulating.  Don't use a lot of yang colors, such as gold or red, in a bedroom.  These colors stimulate your energy, resulting in poor sleep.  Take notice of the view that greets you when you awaken. What is outside your bedroom window - a lamppost, church spire, neighboring rooftops, or a corner of your neighbor's house?  Are any of them "poison" arrows disturbing your sleep or rest?  If so, use a concave bagua mirror to absorb their negative energy.  Remove as much electronic equipment from your bedroom as possible, especially televisions, stereos and computers, which emit electromagnetic energy that is detrimental to rest, health and fertility. Don't use an electric blanket or sleep on a water bed.  The former generates electromagnetic energy, and the latter is believed to cause arthritis, muscle pain and joint problems.  Don't use round windows, skylights or unusual ceilings in a bedroom, as these shapes create odd pockets that collect negative energy.  Avoid sleeping in a bedroom situated above a garage, which channels the noxious fumes from the automobiles to the room's occupants, affecting health.

Don't occupy a bedroom that is in a direct line with a straight road.  If a vehicle's headlights shine at or into the bedroom at night, use the room for exercise, storage, sewing, computer work, play or other leisure activities. Do use plants and flowers to introduce healing yang energy into an ill or convalescing person's bedroom.  Don't keep a broom in the bedroom of a dying person; brooms are believed to sweep away life. Keep your bedroom free of clutter and minimize the amount of furniture so that chi, or life energy, can flow easily throughout the room.  Don't have any water features, such as fountains or aquariums, in your bedroom, where they are considered unlucky and can lead to loss of wealth. Do cleanse the energy in your bedroom several times a year with wind (airing) sound (music, bells) fire (smudging with incense) or water (misting all walls with purified or holy water.)  Use the form of energy cleansing that matches the upcoming season - water for spring and winter, fire for summer, and metal-generated sound for autumn. 

Clean your bedroom (or house) during a new moon, at the solstices (March 21, June 21, September 21 and December 21) or whenever the atmosphere feels heavy, stale or hostile, such as after an argument, illness or death on the premises.  Air out the bedroom thoroughly for at least an hour after smudging.  Open all the doors and windows, so that the negative energy is drawn outside and dispersed.  Close any bathroom doors and toilet seat covers if a bathroom leads into your bedroom.  This simple habit can ensure a good night's sleep.  Don't install a ceiling fan directly above a bed, where it will adversely influence the health of the occupants underneath.  A ceiling fan can be situated past the foot of the bed, where it can still effectively cool a room without affecting the people sleeping in it.  Encourage your child to study in the Northeast area of his or her bedroom to facilitate learning and achieve scholarly success.  Remove pornographic, violent, warlike, depressing or lewd posters and publications from a young person's bedroom if you want him or her to achieve success in school and life.  Don't keep too many plants or any plants that have sharp foilage, such as cactus, in your bedroom.  Plants emit yang energy that can disturb high-quality rest. 

Beds - Position your bed so that it is not in line with the entrance to your bedroom, especially if your feet point toward an entrance.  This is almost universally considered a "death position" because those who die at home are carried out of the room feet first.  Don't place the head of your bed against a wall shared with a bathroom.  Don't put the head of your bed against a window unless there is a solid headboard, curtain, drapes, blinds or shutters to block off the window.  Energy enters the body through the head; this holy part of the body needs protection and support in the form of something visually solid.  Use a headboard made of wood, metal or foam.  Match its shape to the element associated with the direction of the room - arches and round shapes for West and Northwest; rectangles and squares for East and Southeast; curvy, wavy or irregular shapes for North; and triangular shapes for South.  Don't position a bed on the short wall of a room with a pitched ceiling.  The energy of  the sloping ceiling will press down on the bed's occupant.  Make sure the corners of desks, shelves, cabinets, wardrobes, other furniture and architectural features do not point toward the bed.  These corners resemble the points of arrows and sha, or "killing" energy. 

Choose bedding and linens in solid colors.  If they have patterns, avoid geometric, angular designs that emanate negative energy and disturb your rest.  Don't use twin beds pushed together or twin box springs under your king-sized mattress if you share your bed with someone.  These arrangements symbolize a split in your relationship.  If you have twin box springs, tie the adjoining legs together securely with red cord so that they will not separate.  Don't place your bed under a beam.  If this cannot be helped, install a false ceiling with fabric, or hang wind chimes, flutes or red fringe on the beam.  Beams symbolize separation if they appear between a bed's occupants, and they represent health problems in the area of the body that they bisect.  Don't move the bed of a pregnant woman, as this may disturb the life energy present in the bed that led to the conception.
zhouzhuang bells

Bells - Ring a bell in the corners of a room to clear stagnant or stale energy. Use bells with pleasant tinkling sounds to activate yang energy in your home.  Give your bell a single, firm shake above a person's head; then,  holding it about six inches away, trace the person's body from head to toe to cleanse his or her energy.  Choose bells that are new and have a wooden handle for cleansing activities.  Select brass and silver bells in the sound or tone that appeal to you.  Clean your bells by wiping them after each use. Store them in West areas which represent the element of metal. Use bells across from an entrance.  String one or three bells with red ribbon, thread or cord.  Hang the ribbon on your doorknob or above your door, so that the bells sound joyously whenever someone enters.  Bells attract good luck and fortune. Don't select bells that have been used inside temples or churches.  They have absorbed the energy of those with sin, and you will bring that negative energy into your home.
magpie

Birds - Keep a red bird, such as a parrot, in South areas.  Red is the traditional Chinese color for protection.  Don't ask for feathers from others.   Hang feathers that you find near your front door.  These feathers represent protection for you and your family.  If your feathers blow away, try to find others to replace them.  Don't throw feathers away if you find them.  Don't keep your pet bird caged; confining it means that your wealth will be limited.  Keep birds in the Southwest when they are in pairs to strengthen your romance, love, marriage or motherhood area.  Put a pair of metal cranes in the North area of your garden with a water element.  The crane has long been associated with good fortune, wealth, wisdom and longevity for the patriarch and matriarch of a family.  Use a statue of a rooster to offset the divisive effects of ceiling beams and interior pillars and posts.  The bird's beak should be aimed directly at the offending spot.  Use a ceramic rooster to mitigate the dreaded symbol of illness and affliction, the centipede.  A "centipede" is a lammpost outside your house or window that has three or more crosspieces intersecting the main posts.  Point the rooster's beak directly toward the centipede.  Put doves carved in wood in South areas to fuel the element of fire there and increase longevity.  Improve your relationship with your partner by putting a pair of Mandarin ducks, a male and female, in the Southwest areas.  These ducks represent marital devotion, fidelity and happiness because they are deeply attached to each other.  When separated, the birds are believed to pine away to the point of death.  Use two wild geese, which always fly in pairs, in the relationship and marriage area of your bedroom, the Southwest.  These animals are messengers of good news and represent the married state.  Use figurines of a pair of lovebirds in the Southwest corner of your home, garden or bedroom to enhance the romance aspect of your life.  Put statues of eagles or hawks outside and away from your house for protection.  Good locations are at the bottom of a driveway or on either side of a gate.  Don't display statues, pictures or other images of predatory birds with their victims clasped in their talons or hovering about their dead or half-eaten prey.  Use magpies as decorations in South areas.  They are harbingers of joy, happiness and festivity and are good luck omens.  If they set up residence near your home, in your trees or under your eaves, good fortune is sure to follow. 
Place the phoenix in Southwest areas to attract happy relationships and marriage.  This bird personifies everything good and beautiful and is believed to appear only when China is governed by a just, reasonable, and fair ruler, or during peaceful and prosperous times.  Put a phoenix or a pheasant, another symbol of beauty, in the South area to attract fame and fortune.  One carved in wood is doubly powerful because the wood element nourishes the fire element of South.  Place a swallow in East (wood) or South (fire) areas to enhance your prosperity and good fortune.  The swallow, which builds its nest under the eaves of buildings, portends approaching success or a lucky change in the fortunes and affairs of the house's occupants.
Buddha - Pick a laughing Buddha for your home or business.  He is the cheerful, chubby chap with a potbelly, carrying a gourd or a bad hanging from a staff held over one shoulder, and sometimes an ingot in one hand.  The bag contains your troubles and problems, which he has collected for you.  Do select the largest-sized Buddha that appeals to you, keeping him in proportion to the size of the room in which he is located.  Display a Buddha with children climbing all over him.  This represents an abundance of good fortune coming from heaven.  Do not put your Buddha on the ground so that people look down on him.  Keep him level with or higher than the occupants of a room.  Position your Buddha diagonally across from and facing the door, which is the position of power and honor in the room.    Don't bring a used or antique statue or figurine of the Buddha, especially one from a temple, into your home unless you cleanse or purity it first.  It may carry unwanted negative energy.
Candles - Use scented candles to purify a room, help you relax and improve your sleep.  Don't use candles in the metal element areas of West and Northwest; fire melts metal.  Light red, blue or purple candles in South areas to stimulate celebrity, fame, fortune, reputation, happiness and festivity; light white, yellow, orange, pink or red candles to reinforce the Southwest area, which represents love, marriage, relationships, motherhood and romance.   Put blue, green or turquoise candles in the Northeast area to enhance knowledge, scholarly success, wisdom, experience and self-development.

Coins -  Tie three coins, either ancient Chinese coins or silver dollars, together with red cord or string and hang them on the inside of the main door to your home.  This gesture keeps your prosperity inside your home and is especially effective if your front entrance faces one of the metal directions, West or Northwest.   Don't hang any coins on your back door; this represents money leaving your premises.  Wear Chinese coins in any combination of jewelry, such as earrings, bracelets, brooches or rings, to attract good fortune.  Tape three Chinese coins to the underside of your telephone to encourage it to ring more often.  Hang a hallow-rod wind chime or crystal above the telephone. 

Colors - Use aqua or turquoise in the Northeast to enhance knowledge, wisdom, self-development, experience and in the East to promote family, harmony, growth, vitality, prosperity and youth.  Use brown, beige or tan to represent spring, youth, prosperity, family, harmony, nutrition, strength, growth and vitality.  Don't use black in bedrooms or on the walls or ceilings of any room, and don't combine it with yellow or use it in an earth area (SW or NE).  In the North, it enhances business success, career, and new beginnings but it also represents mourning, evil and guilt.  Use blue in the North to attract business success, and in the East to enhance family, harmony, growth and health. Don't use blue in the earth areas (SW and NE) or wear it in a ribbon or bow in your hair; it is one of the traditional Chinese mourning symbols.  Use metallic gold in the West to enhance children, children's fame, creativity, business and career success, supportive people, trade, travel, prosperity, wealth and interests outside the home.  Don't use metallic gold in bedrooms, as it destroys health and harmony, or in East areas (representing health, prosperity and family) or SE areas (wealth and prosperity.)  Use non-metallic gold in NE areas to enhance wisdom, knkowledge and scholarly success.  It also enhances SW (the area of marriage, motherhood, love and relationships.)  Don't use non-metallic gold in the North, which represents business and career success.  Non-metallic gold represents earth and earth destroys water, the symbol of financial prosperity. 
Do use green, the color of health, harmony, prosperity, youth, growth, spring, wealth and prosperity, to enhance South areas (representing fame, fortune, joy, festivity and protection from evil.)  Don't use green in earth areas (SW and NE.) Green symbolizes wood, which destroys earth.  Don't use gray in wood areas (E and SE.)  Gray represents metal, which destroys wood.  Do use gray in NW, N and W areas to enhance supportive people, benefactors, mentors, international trade, trips, travel and interests outside the home.  Do use orange in SW areas to promote motherhood, romance, love, relationships and marriage. Don't use orange in North areas.  Orange is a fire color; if placed in the North, it will be doused by water, that area's element.  Do use peach liberally in your unmarried daughter's bedroom so that she will marry well; it is the color used by single women to attract a good husband.  If you can find peonies or pictures with this color, put them outside her bedroom.  Don't use peach in your bedroom if you are already married.  This hue will activate your partner's roving eye or heart, causing infidelity.  Do use pink in a single woman's bedroom; it represents romance, love and marriage.  It is especially powerful in South and Southwest areas.  Do use purple, the color of knowledge, wisdom, intelligence, wealth and spirituality, in the East to enhance harmony, prosperity, family and health, or in the SE to promote wealth and prosperity.  Do use red in any form in South areas.  Next to black, it is the most powerful yang color in Chinese culture.  It represents fame, fortune, joy, festivity, longevity, summer, passion and protection from back luck and evil.  Do use red for newlyweds, brides, people celebrating their birthdays, temple doors, baby blankets, firecreackers, embroideries and tapestries.  Use red hearts and silk flowers in the Southest, the area of relationships, marriage, love, romance and motherhood, or the South, area of fame, fortune, long life, reputation and prosperityTie two cords or ribbons on the inside of your bedroom doorknow if you would look to attract a serious partner.  Don't put too much red in a bedroom.  Its yang energy is too active and will disturb the occupant's rest.

Cows - Put a wooden figure of a wishfulfilling cow on your desk in the SE or East area.  Use a metal figure in the West or SW, or a ceramic one in SW or NE locations.  These placements will encourage wealth.  The cow represents spring and is revered because it pulls the plow to prepare the fields from which the harvest comes. 


Crystals - Clear your new crystals by running them under cold water (preferably sea, holy or purified water - don't use tap water) to wash away the energies of all the people who have handled them before you.  Let the water drip down from the point.  Purify natural crystals before using them by gently rinsing them in rainwater, the ocean, or a solution of sea salt and cold water (mixed in a glass or ceramic container, not a metal or plastic one.)  Bury them in the earth for at least three days and up to one moon cycle or store them under pyramids.  Don't keep your colored crystals in the sunlight, as it will cause them to fade.  Do recharge your crystals by placing them out in the moonlight as often as you can. Hang two white, red, gold or pink heart-shaped crystals in the SW corner of your bedroom to activate love, marriage and relationships.  Put crystals in multiples of eight in the NE area of your office or study if you want to excel in your work or incease your intuitive and thinking powers.  Put them in the NE area of your child's bedroom to help her or him do well academically.  Use crystals in the earth areas of SW (marriage, relationships, romance, love), the earth area of NE (knowledge, wisdom, self-development), and especially the metal area of W, because earth creates metal, which is made into coins and represents wealth.  Place six crystal balls in the NW, another metal area, to bring supportive people into your life and to strengthen the power and influence of the male head of the household. 
Hang a crystal from an exposed beam, or from a door frame if you have three doors in a row in a hallway.  Crystals break up the negative energy created by beams and long hallways.  Hang a crystal in a dark corner to activate  chi, or life energy, in that location.  Put a crystal jar or vase on a desk to deflect sha, or "killing" energy, if the desk is in line with a door or corridor.  Dangle a crystal from a window if the view includes corners of buildings, rooftops, lampposts, chimneys or other other unpleasant sights.  Clean your birth gemstone after each use to keep its energy pure.  Collect citrine crystals to tuck inside your wallet or purse, as this stone is associated with wealth and fortune.

If only your "positive" beliefs given were materialized then you would never clearly comprehend the power of your thought, for you would not completely experience its physical results.   Jane Roberts

Someday, after we have mastered the winds, the waves, the tide and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love.  Then, for the second time in the history of the world, we will have discovered fire.  Pierre Teilhard de Chardin


more to follow xo



Friday, October 8, 2010

i am woman

I am strong

We have been blessed with fabulous weather and I stay outdoors as long as possible.  Last night we enjoyed a play featuring my cousin, Brittney, at the Joliet Junior College.  Her talent knows no bounds and her natural acting ability will bring her accolades galore.  It was nice seeing members of the Girtman/Lutz family.  Today I tended my garden, went to the grocery store, dropped off clothes at the cleaners, paid some bills, went to the bank, cleaned the house, did the laundry - before 10:00am.
I am invincible

Then I gave both dogs a very much needed bath, took them for a long walk, washed two vehicles, inside and out, prepared a delightful spaghetti dinner, baked some sugar cookies - all this with a broken phalange.  I am learning from Aunt Diane -  my inspiration.
I am woman

Now I will indulge in a nice glass of black currant wine while I take a hot bubble bath in lavender suds and wait for my honey to arrive home for a romantic evening together.  This is a day in the life of a domestic goddess.  Life is good.  And so I share. Thank God for all these blessings.  Have a beautiful weekend.   xo


There are no little things.  "Little things" are the hinges of the universe.  Fanny Fern

If you can learn from hard knocks, you can also learn from soft touches. Carolyn Kenmore

The soul is here for its own joy.  Rumi

Then she knew that whatever power she might have had was...wasted and gone.  Rebecca Harding Davis

It is never too late to be what you might have been.  George Eliot

The blessings for which we hunger are not found in other places or people.  These gifts can only be given to you by yourself.  They are at home in the hearth of your soul.   John O'Donohue


Sunday, October 3, 2010

happy autumn

my pretty heart-shaped mum

The cool season is upon us, gently reminding us of colder days to come; but in the meantime, I plan to enjoy every sunny, crispy day as much as possible.  I notice the air is so fresh as I take my dogs for their daily walk, and they sniff around much longer, taking advantage of the new smells.  We spent three weekends trimming trees and brush, saving us at least a grand on landscaping bills, but we enjoyed working outdoors and everything looks so manicured once again.  Our flowers are still blooming but I decided to plant some golden mums called Sweet Cheryl around the home. 
don't be too scared...

Instead of watching football I decided to decorate for Halloween to give the kids a little spirit to come home to, not to mention I was supremely bored.  I have fun putting fake spiders on their pizza and they return the favor by putting them in my water jug.  It keeps things interesting around here and they wonder what they will find next. 
Pumpky

We spent this weekend cleaning up after our former tenant and together we made great progress.  I look forward to the day when we have one dwelling to maintain, but until then, onward soldiers...I got such a deal on the flowers so I went and spread the beauty at my Dad's place and brought some for Carrie to plant as well.  We lost another member of the Greatest Generation this week, for my Great Aunt Jeannie passed away.  She was the last of the Sutter family to join her 8 sisters and brothers. It was nice spending time with our relatives and catching up on our lives.  I was surprised to find out her real name is Genevieve.  May she rest in peace; although, I imagine with all of them together, they will be partying up a storm.
Ozis and Thumper

We celebrated Karen's 21st birthday at Dao and it was such a treat to see all the artistic meals spread all over the table.  We continue to enjoy the visits with our boys and their significant others.  The girls bring a sweet energy to our lives.  Today I am preparing the Chicken Parmesan Pasta dish and will dabble in my weekly baking by making Halloween cupcakes.  Our fireplace is on again and will remain so everyday until May.  This is one of the best investments we ever made.  The Bears are 3-0.  Let's see if they can keep it up; Wayne is very happy all week when they win.

You can't win any game unless you are ready to win. Connie Mack

Negativity always arises out of an unhealed part of you. Neale Donald Walsch

No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit.  Helen Keller

I keep the telephone of my mind open to peace, harmony, health, love and abundance. Then, whenever doubt, anxiety or fear try to call me, they keep getting a busy signal - and soon they'll forget my number.  Edith Armstrong


GO BEARS! xo